I have often wondered just how hard it was in today’s life to be a celebrity in the spot light and gay at the same time. Coming out for most “normal” and I use normal loosely is a terrifying and traumatic experience at the best of times. Now imagine that if you are famous and known by millions of people.
Coming out can be the most liberating experience in the life of any gay man or woman, but if you are in the spotlight it could also destroy your career (Assuming you had one to start with). We live in an time where being gay is not that big of an issue, but even 10 years ago it was a BIG issue.
Lest say it was 1985 and you had to publicly admit that you had a male lover as a male actor, firstly you would have been unemployed by the time the interview or press conference was done. Next would come the wave of religious bible thumpers (AkA religious nuts!) telling everyone that you were the reason why everything that ever went wrong was your fault.
Then the hate mail would start, “You are queer, you suck!” “God created Adam and Eve NOT Adam and Steve” “You are possessed by demons, repent sinner!” (last one came from a family member!)
THEN comes the “please marry me” phase, every single closet queen on the planet now know you are batting for the other team and they will stop at nothing short of death to get you as a husband!
HiYou don’t know me but I feel like we connected, when I was 11 I walked past a poster of you in the mall and I felt like there was a connection, the way you looked at me, I could feel that you wanted me!I am 32 now and live with my mother, but she said that it would not be a problem if you come live with me in the basement. I am slightly over weight but the doctor said it’s the baby fat that still needs to fall off, and for my height 387 pounds is not really that much.It would be an honor to be your husband and I am sure the language barrier will not be a problem.Love alwaysCirrilPS:I have included a picture of me taken just last night, just for you!
Luckily it seems like the world are not that cruel today, just look of the list of celebrities that is out and living “normal” lives.
Chris Colfer’s character, Kurt Hummel. And in real like, Sue Sylvester aka Jane Lynch is married to clinical psychologist Dr. Lara Embry. This show is just changing television in many different aspects.
Chaz Bono, momma Cher is still very proud of her son.
and many many many more!
Pop superstar Ricky Martin is reportedly due to marry his lover Carlos Gonzalez Abella on the 28th of January, this month in New York City. Although Ricky has hinted that he was engaged, he never officially released a date for the wedding, but it has now been leaked online by a source close to the couple.
Congrats seems in order!